Let’s face it, the waistband or underwear posts are what a lot of guys following my blog like, and some blow up and get hundreds of likes or reblogs, but I think my written posts about our life get more answers and or written messages. I think that a lot of guys like knowing it’s entirely possible to lead a normal loving life being two gay men with children. A lot of the messages I get about our life, you guys don’t see as a lot are personal comments or questions that I answer directly between us. I love all the notes and reblogs as that’s what keeps my blog going, but it’s the personal side that keeps me going, knowing I may be helping some of you in a small way. π