You are a longtime blog follower if you remember that picture. It was the only full picture I ever posted of myself and that was before Aaron. Once Aaron and I became an item, we talked about my blog and we agreed I wouldn’t post pics of us on here if I was going to share so much about our life. I did however sneak in a few underwear or waistband shots of us but never said they were of us or one of us.
As for your question, I’d say im a husband and father first, then gay, man, son, friend, waistband, underwear, blogger, etc. but definitely husband and father first! 💙