First off Jacob is Jeremy’s friend, not his boyfriend, and why wouldn’t we let him. Anytime his friends stay over, his bedroom door is open when they go to sleep. That’s always been a rule. They can have the door shut when they are hanging out or playing video games, but bedtime door stays open. Typically when his friends stay over they sleep in the living room anyway. We trust Jeremy and he’s never given us a reason not to trust him.