When Jeremy first arrived were you ever self conciese about waking around shirt off and in just boxers.? I suppose all three of you do now and you have a swimming pool so pretty open. I know when I was a teen I frequently sat in just boxers for breakfast with my mom there. She used to say “there is nothing I haven’t seen anyway”

Yes we were very careful as I think we were more scared what someone might say, but now it’s a normal thing if one of us comes out in our boxerbriefs. We don’t make it a habit like we did before kids but we normally at least wear shorts, sweatshorts or pj bottoms. Jeremy seems to always be in his underwear but I think that’s a teenager thing, and he’s more into his body and how he looks too. If the house is open, I.E. people expected over we ask that he at least wear shorts. We are all ok around each other in underwear tho, no big deal anymore. He’s our kid and should feel comfortable at home, and yes he has taken after us and having nice underwear too.

Giving thanks the day before Thanksgiving 🦃

As I’ve been laying here on my lounge chair watching Kayden peacefully sleep in his bassinet, I look over and see Aaron, the same way in our bed, it made me get up and go peek in on Jeremy and he’s also sound asleep in his bed, it made me realize that for us, all is right in the world and I have so much to give thanks for on this day before Thanksgiving.

Before I met Aaron, this was only a dream that I never thought would come true for me in my life since as I was only a gay 20 year old with no hope of living a “normal” life because that’s what I was told my life would be like as a gay man. All I can say is never believe what others say your life will be like and keep dreaming, because dreams do come true! 💙

What do you get more notes on? Posts about your family or the hot guys who reblog?

Let’s face it, the waistband or underwear posts are what a lot of guys following my blog like, and some blow up and get hundreds of likes or reblogs, but I think my written posts about our life get more answers and or written messages. I think that a lot of guys like knowing it’s entirely possible to lead a normal loving life being two gay men with children. A lot of the messages I get about our life, you guys don’t see as a lot are personal comments or questions that I answer directly between us. I love all the notes and reblogs as that’s what keeps my blog going, but it’s the personal side that keeps me going, knowing I may be helping some of you in a small way. 💙