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you’re right: gay people shouldn’t have kids. They’re bad rolemodels for their kids. A kid needs a mom and a dad. There are so many problems for a kid with gay parents. So wait 4-ever with having kids pls

waistbandboi:

waistbandboy:

I thought about just trashing this message like I usually do with these hate filled messages but then I thought, wait, when I have kids, and we will, I may have to deal with and teach my child that one day he or she have to to deal with this exact thing in their life and I want them to understand that hate it taught from parents or someone in their life that was also taught hate, and our job will be to be a loving person and try to show them that they are wrong, that their gay parents are a loving couple that care about them as much or more then any straight parent out there. I want my children to learn love, not hate, and that we don’t judge people by something that they don’t understand or even if they do understand that no matter your color, religion or your sexual orientation, that if you’re a good person, that’s what counts. When you say gay couples shouldn’t have kids, do you understand that most gay children are born out of a straight relationship? What will you do if your child ends up being a gay teen or adult? Will you be a good parent and still love and accept them as they are or will you push them out of your life? I hope you’ll be that good parent and support them, just remember if you don’t accept them, there are those of us that would love to be that parent to them that will love and protect them and teach then the love that they deserve! You’re a bad role model by spewing hate. How about learning to show love and respect to those around you instead. I’m really sorry you learned hate instead of love, you would be a much happier person if you were taught love. For your information we have kids from gay and straight parents with problems, it’s our job to teach them LOVE and how to be a good person. With that being said, we will be parents one day, and I guarantee you, we will raise that child or children to be loving caring people, just like we are. If you ever want to talk, I encourage you to send me a private message and open a dialog with me, I’d be more then happy to help you lose the hate and help you understand what love is all about. I know someone else taught you this hate, let me be the person to help you to learn to love thy neighbor as thyself! 💙

I was so emotional when I first read that anon message, even more so now that we have Jeremy with us. 💙

Even more emotional now that we have Jeremy and Kayden! We will make sure they both grow up forever surrounded in LOVE! 💙

waistbandboi:

emotoothtiger:

waistbandboy:

OPEN LETTER TO THE PARENTS OF YOUR GAY CHILDREN:

As I’ve been looking through a few blogs that post picture of mostly guys showing LOVE like this one, I began to realize just how beautiful LOVE is, whether its two guys, two girls or one of each. Love Is Love! There are millions of us gay couples and many more single or “in the closet” gay folks that deserve to have LOVE in their lives, like anyone else. I mean look at this picture, it’s so beautiful! I was talking to a friend earlier today that is scared to death to tell his parents that he is gay. He is one of the most awesome guys I’ve ever met and his parents have no idea who he really is because of their hate of the gay community. Where do these parents think we come from? Yes we are the offspring of you, our straight parents! We are your kids that you gave birth to! Would have you ever even thought that you could turn your back on the child that was once the pride of your lives? Well we are that same person! Since coming out I have had the pleasure to meet many gay friends and have even found the LOVE of my life. I’ve never been so happy in my life as I am right now with him in my life and yes my parents supported me 100% and I believe that’s a big part of why i am who I am now. Isn’t that what you want for your kids as they grow up and look toward their future and be happy in their life? Please think about what you’re doing to your children by not being there for them. There are too many of your kids that are all alone, self harming or worse, committing suicide because they don’t have their parents to help them through this difficult part of our lives. If your child tells you he or she is gay, be there for them, they need you more now then ever before in their lives. These are your kids, show them the love and respect they deserve, and for gods sake, be there to protect them as you did when they were infants! You can help them become awesome gay adults or you can turn your backs on them, it’s up to you, but I say LOVE your gay children!!! I promise you, you won’t be sorry!  PLEASE REBLOG IF YOU AGREE WITH ME!

Sure thing!

I forgot I had written this on my old blog, and to think, we ended up having the pleasure of adopting one of those awesome kids that all he needed was someone to care and love him! I actually cried reading this! Thanks emotoothtiger for still having this on your blog!

Please READ and SHARE! …….. I wrote this way before we had any kids, now that we have both Jeremy and Kayden, it’s just as close to my heart as it was when I wrote it. #LoveIsLove

Kayden and Love

I can sit here watching Kayden sleep and my heart just melts! I never knew you could love someone so unconditionally like we have with Jeremy, then Kayden was born and the feelings are just as strong! I love being a dad! 💙💙💙💙

I was thinking about a friend on here worried about his parents not loving him when they find out he’s gay, and I could not imagine ever losing the love I have for these boys for any reason. I’m going to go look for a post I wrote on the subject when Aaron and I first were together before we started talking about having kids. I hope you all read it and maybe share it with your parents.

Dinner

waistbandboy:

We went out to dinner last night and we were having such a good time, at one point Aaron gave me a kiss, I mean we were not trying to hide we are a couple but we were not showing it off either, it was just a quick kiss. We were just having a nice time, like every other couple there was doing. So when he kissed me, there was a older couple sitting across from us (probably in their 60’s) and the lady had this horrified look on her face and very loudly told us we were disgusting and had no business kissing in public and ruining her meal. It totally changed our night from a loving wonderful night into one where I felt like I was going to puke. I looked around and it seemed everyone was looking at us. I’m sure Aaron felt the same way but he grabbed my hand and whispered to just ignore her, I literally felt like I was going to cry. Then something happened that changed our feelings back to good ones. The ladies husband stood up and said to his wife even louder then his wife had been, that the only thing he saw disgusting was her behavior toward two people that are obviously in love, then he said something else to her that we didn’t hear, walked over to us and shook our hands and said he was so sorry and walked out. That’s about the time, almost every person in the restaurant that saw what happened, started clapping. It was pretty amazing but I was still not sure how to feel. We didn’t go there to be a side show, just to have a nice dinner. As people were leaving, a few people came by and made some nice comments to us, so it kind of did make things better. Oh that lady got her food put in a to-go container and left, she was still giving us dirty looks as she left, but at that point I was like F her! After we finished our dinner our waiter brought us a slice of cheesecake and two forks and said it was “on him” and he was sorry for the disturbance. After we finished dessert and a after dinner drink, we asked for our bill and our waiter said one of the customers, that asked to remain anonymous, had already covered our bill. We got up to leave and Aaron being Aaron, left a fat tip on the table, grabbed my hand and we walked out holding hands. I flippin’ love him so much. I still had mixed feelings this morning about what happened, but I know there is always going to be hateful people in this world and there is nothing that we can do about that, then Aaron told me this morning that I need to look at the positive instead of the negative, the rest of the customers were pretty awesome toward us, including that ladies husband, our waiter, the customers that clapped, the ones that made nice comments, and whoever paid for our dinner. It did end up being a pretty incredible night, that I sure won’t forget. Oh and after we got home, that was pretty incredible too! I have the most amazing man in my life and I feel so lucky for that!

I was going to try to re-write this story but every time I did, the words just didn’t come out right. I had written about it the morning after it happened so I was able to capture more of how we felt about it. Tonight I found it on one of my waistbandboy blog followers blog! Thank you so much for still having this on your blog, it was one of those nights that we never have forgotten. My blog followers are the best! 😏 Thank you #notfrankgoodness